Deathless

To know the deathless is the ultimate goal of life. Desires are a distraction; they are only of objects that are transient. More one desires, more one feels empty. Even When desires are fulfilled, we are never full. Desires can be spiritual, can be of spiritual objects. Those are also a hindrance, stops that comes in our spiritual journey, stops are never destinations. No matter how beautiful they look, how curious they make us, we still have to go back to our home. This should always be remembered. Desires are only when we live in future, they are never of the present. This moment is desireless. Time is infinite, immeasurable but our moment is the present moment, we can either live fully, joyously or loose it worrying about future, worrying if the marriage will succeed, If the children will be successful, will be good, worrying about the job, profits next quarter, trip on weekend and many more, It goes on and on. In Bhagavat Gita, Bhagwan make arjun remember what is deathless, all fears dissolved, all worries dissolved, all his desires dissolved with the understanding of what is deathless. Today people fear about death, modern people fear more than the orthodox because they have completely lost the concept of deathless, they are unaware of deathless. If one becomes of deathless, there is no hurry, Eternity is sensed, Time is eternal, Its never lost. A Moment Lost does not mean we have less time now. Time is never ending, It remains the same. Beyond Time, There is timelessness, beyond desire there is desirelessness. We are conscious of the body, of the physical, of the material- which is going to die but not of the innerness which will always remain, That is deathlessness. This understanding makes the bounded unbounded, physical is bounded, It has a form, It dies and Its from changes but what is that changes form? Who has seen it? This form that we have now is the not the first form that we have got and it will not be the last. That which is changing forms is who we are, The original one, which the creator created, The purest one, The desireless one, The deathless one, The formless one which takes all the forms, All the templates, Whether Conscious or unconscious. When we are Conscious this Journey become blissful, full of Joy, then the freedom is possible, redemption from original sin which the serpent made us commit is possible.

Parenting In Today's Fast Changing World.

Parenting is not a easy job. To give birth to a child is very easy but to be a parent is difficult. Any animal can give birth, Its ordinary but to be a parent is not ordinary. Its a rare phenomenon. Not many are capable of being a parent. The very first criterion of being a parent is to give freedom to your children. Every child is unique, every child carriers great potential but parents burden them, impose there ideas on them. That is not a job of parent, Job of parent is to give nourishment, support to the child so that the child can grow. To protect the child just as a tree grower protects. Tree grow on its own, blue print of the tree is already in the seed, its potential is already there, it just needs nourishment to grow towards its potential and after a certain stage its needs to be left alone to its nature. To the earth. Children grow out of there childhood but parents remains stuck in there parenthood. This is a problem about which not many pshycologists talk about, its neither discussed in the society, in the public institutions. Child is blamed, for being impulsive, for being angry, his biology is blamed, its the chemicals in the body due to puberty they say. Real problem is the imposition, Its the overprotectiveness. Its the fear of the very environment in which the tree has to live, Its impossible to protect from which is for our own benefit. Parents have forgotten to live with the child, love the child in fear of future of the child. Overprotection creates a problem but underprotection also creates a problem. That is why parenting is difficult. Its the balance that is needed to be maintained. In todays fast changing world, this becomes more difficult. Everything changes in 5 years, look back 5 years is the word same? Everything has changed, every five years we have new normals. Its already difficult to adjust, to calibrate onself then parents keep on imposing old ideas, old ways. Its bound to be a failure for the child. Then child only wants to run away. This is not a good situation, creating enemy out of your children, its the worst nightmare for every parent. Let your children be strong, The day a child is born, a mother is also born, a father is also born, with the birth of childhood, there is birth of parenthood. But a parent always has to be right, If parents goes wrong then the child will be gone wrong. Let your children be strong, growth of the child is also growth of the parents. There was no mother before a child was born, it was only a woman, now something has happened, motherhood has bloomed, fatherhood has bloomed. If parents are not growing than this will stop the growth of child as well. Its important for parents to keep on growing and learning new things. Teach them to your children. This is the only way through a relationship is kept alive, growth is the sign of life. Dead only rots. Its important for parents to embrace the new and not to impose. This will help to form a strong bond and create joy. This can be acheived, Its not impossible. To acheive this a path has to be taken, This path is from desires to desirelesness. To a state of mind which is not full of desires, full of ideas that are to be imposed on the child. I have given some techniques to acheive this state in my upcoming book. The pre-order link for it is shared below, It will be available on Amazon. I hope it will help the readers. https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0BMB58JL8/ref=sr_1_fkmr3_1?crid=1CM3EQC1QJ71X&keywords=desire+to+desirelessness+by+rahul+bhatia&qid=1668515320&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjcwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=desire+to+desirelessness+by+rahul+bhatia%2Caps%2C282&sr=8-1-fkmr3

On Innocence.

Innocence is of two types. One is innocence which comes out of child other is innocence which comes out of maturity. Innocence is beautiful, It's Love, it gives comfort to people around us. 

Childish innocence has desires. Mature Innocence is of a sage, it's innocence of bhuddha, it's innocence of a Krishna, of a Rama. It's innocence of Radha , of sita. Childish innocence leads to suffering, innocence of bhuddha is the infinite peace. It's infinite. It's being in the present moment. It's innocence of stars, moon, trees. That is why in certain traditions they are considered forms of Godliness. They are considered like a portal to God. 

Innocent persons with desires only want to take, they have nothing to give to the world. They are like child. Child only takes. It takes your time, your sleep, your peace, your anger, your love, your mind. Everything. You are not in your control. Everything should happen according the needs of the child. Innocence of maturity only knows giving. Sun gives, moon gives, air gives, water gives, earth gives. They have become infinitely full, so silent, so peaceful. They only give. This quality of giveness is associated with godliness. They have become holy. 

That's why a bhuddha is holy, a Krishan is holy, a Rama is holy, a Jesus is holy. They take nothing, they only give. This quality, This type of innocence comes only from maturity. Seed has grown fully into a tree. Fruits have come and ripened with infinite sweetenes. Then only this quality comes. When it comes one become divine. Goal of existence is achieved. This state is a state of Jeevan Mukta. Liberation while being alive. One has become Whole. 

On God.

Scriptures Says God Created Man in his own image. This statement is manipulation. It was manipulated by politicians who became preist to grab power. When a politician want to control people, religion becomes a problem. People who are religious, who are devoted to God are a problem. Politicians devised a trick they became preists. Truth is man creates God in his own image. Christian creates a Jesus, Hindu creates a Krishna, Bhuddist creates a bhuddha, Muslim creates a Allah. This man is a politician. He has created all these images of God and made devoted people follow these images. This is a intelligent trick, illusion, Maya. For Centuries humanity is fooled. Fighting with each other for power struggles of politicians only to make sure humanity remains enslaved under the masters. Politicians change, one goes another comes then another but condition of humanity remains the same. Politics remains the same. That is why the phrase history repeats itself. This is also a trick invented by politicians to ensure if some slave become aware of the pattern then also there power remains. 

Evolution of this politician is the suffering of humanity. All the efforts in the past that has been made by enlightened humans to make humanity free has not succeeded and politician again come with new trick. This is because efforts has been made to fight the system when only way through which freedom can be attained is to be free from desires. To reach the state of Desirelessness. 

Desire To Desirelessness

Desires are to be transcended. They are like the drug. Spiritual Journey of Humans_ The Very Goal of Human existence is freedom from desires. From Thousands of years all the great sages, religions, philosphists have talked about desire. They have been anti-desire. I am not anti-desire. I am preaching the real goal which is Transcending Desire. 

One should not be anti-desire, That is against the very existence. Whatever we experience has always been a desire of God. Our very existence is the desire of God which God wanted to experience. Experience of ants, trees, wind, sun, moon, animals, dirt etc. All the existence is what God desired to experience. As soon as God had a desire to experience there was a desire to not have any experience. This other desire is what has caused existence of humans possible with the ability to be free from Desires and acheive state of Mukti. 

Desire is like love as soon as we fall in love we want to be out of it.  It's the same energy as Love. That is why God is Love. Love is a drug. Love is dangerous. 

Hate is also dangerous. Freedom from desires or Love doesn't mean being hatefull. Hate is reverse flow of Love. It's still Love. It's the same energy running opposite. That is what is being anti-desire and forcing oneself not to experience what we desire to experience. 

Transcendence is state of Freedom. It's Experience of Independent, Infinite Existence. It's the total experience. It's beyond words. Beyond Intelligence.